If you followed the news, you would have heard about the tragic stampede happened in 2010 over Koh Pich Bridge (Diamond bridge), Phnom Penh, Cambodia. It happened on July, 22nd, 2010, on the very day of Cambodian much celebrated water festival. The bad omen sort of followed through, water festival was canceled once and again in 2011 (mourning for the loss last year, duh) and 2012 (due to the flood).
This year, it was yet again canceled (same old reason, the flood).
|YDP Charity Trip logo
|Homestay Volunteer Teacher Organization
The second and third day were the real reasons why most of the participants joined, to visit the a dozen or so famous Khmer Temples at Siem Reap, renounced for their beauty and elegance.
I have already been to the land of wonder (Siem Reap) for several times already, so i wasn’t THAT excited over the second and third day. The main reason I joined was that I wanted to know how sweet charity tastes.
So in this post, I am going to focus heavily on the first day of the trip, the HVTO visit.
(Excuse me for not having enough detailed information, I didn’t care about any details since I didn’t intend to write about it)
It was maybe 10+ kilometers from the main road, the path was full of holes filled with red-brown mud and water (some as big as a lake, and i’m not even kidding). We were waved at whenever we passed a house full of playing kids. I bet they didn’t see big 25-seat buses crossing their villages that often; and the holes in the road sort of support my bet.
We arrived at HVTO headquarter at around three o’clock. The kids were already lining up, waiting for us. Upon further questioning, we found out that they had been there since ten o’clock. I was a kid once, and i was forced on several occasions to wait for “the guests”. The notion that the kids were wasting their time waiting for us didn’t sit well with me.
Just to be sure, I asked a young girl next to me if she was upset that she had to wait that long. To my astonishment, she said the kids AGREED no, DEMANDED to wait.
Nobody forced them. They were genuinely excited for our arrival.
This has reminded me of how genuine country people can be as opposed to some (*cough-cough* most) sarcastic, whiny towns children.
We spent over one hour playing some games and taught them some English words. Not that they needed any teaching; i mean, the little girl spoke much better English than some of my friends here in Phnom Penh city.
|The kids over at HVTO and YDP organizers
As the evening approaches, we began to feel fit to say our last words and bid the children good bye.
Mr. Chun Serey, representative of all the village seniors who were absent due to their duty to over-see the construction of another building at the moment, expressed his gratitude to us.
He said this organization DOES receive funds from time to time (obviously), but this was the very first time CAMBODIANS were the givers. I am proud to be a part of this so.
|Mr. Chun Serey speaking to the audience
“It was about time people who are more fortunate reach out to those who have less. We can’t always rely on foreign aids; it’s time for Cambodian aids.” -Chun Serey
Mr. Diep Sophal, a famous history lecturer and was the head of this trip, said a few words that still linger with me long after the trip (just as most of his invaluable words).
“ខ្មែរស្រលាញ់ខ្មែរ។ Khmer loves Khmer.” – Mr. Diep Sophal.
It’s this simple. The whole charity trip stems from the love we have for one another as Khmers. We are certainly not the first Cambodian to help our fellow Cambodians out, there are numerous others before us. However, it is still not enough.
I believe it is about time all of us who are fortunate enough realize our luck and reach out to those who have less by all means possible.
What about you? Have you reached out yet?