For the Sake of Shakespeare, Cross Speedreading out of Your Resolution

Anyone who has tried to build their reading habit has had this one thought, “What if I can read it faster?” and then your mind launches into this dreamy fantasy of you breezing through War and Peace as if it were a boring celebrity magazine with a huge library of books that you’ve finished in the recent years.

It certainly is a sweet fantasy because to be completely honest, reading takes time, a lot of time, the same time that can be spent sleeping, earning money, or hanging out with your family at your back porch.
But should you entertain this fantasy? Should you want to read faster?

I think not. I mean, some things should be sped up for the sake of your sanity, i.e., reading assigned textbooks that were actually written by your professors, but meaningful activities should not be sped up! Do you wish to be at the end of your life, and say with a self-satisfied smile, “Phew, now that’s a quick life. I’m glad I got that over.”

If you have the urge to speed read through your current book, then either you’re reading the wrong way, or the wrong book. It takes time to dig depth and forge intimacy. It doesn’t matter how soon you can breeze through a book, it’s the impact of the book upon your life that counts. Books are not trophy for you to hang upon the wall.

“But I can actually remember the essential information from the book I’ve speed read, so speed reading is not that bad” you said. Well, does that matter? Information can be looked up pretty easily in this age. Books are supposed to make you think, to make you evaluate your life, to see things in a new light. Information gained from books might be enough for you to survive final exams, but to add flavors to your life? That requires more than a few simple hours of leafing through pages. It demands digestion, comparison, and explanation. It demands that you should have an intimate dialogue with the author through the work and ask questions, life-changing questions to your assumptions. And that simply cannot be achieved through speed reading.

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Don’t fall into your ego’s trap and try to surf your way through reading just to increase the amount on your “read” list. And if you’re halfway through the trap already, well, ask yourself, of all the hundred books you’ve boasted of having read, how many can you really recall? How many still emits a warmth in your heart just by thinking about it? Because great books? Great books that you’ve thoroughly read on the pages and between the lines? They stay with you. They might not always float through your consciousness, but just like a beautiful childhood memory, they will visit you from time to time and leave a trail of perfume scents on its wake.

“But.. but, this book is too long. It’s 700 pages! How can I possibly enjoy reading it slowly?” you ask. Well, if it’s a great book, you will have to bear it. Great lives have boring period and great books have boring sections. Would you rather read 3 mediocre, plot-driven books that you are likely to forget 2 months from now instead? That’s like wishing to have 3 acquaintances whose names you will only remember for a week instead of a close friend who knows all your woes and happiness. A deep friendship takes lots of time and struggle to form but once it’s established, it adds so much more value to your life than three acquaintances whom you occasionally party with. Books are the same. If you really wish to gain wisdom from the compacted thought of a person in the form of a book, to savor the enjoyment of pacing a new world, then I’d suggest you to not speed read. Take your time. Look at the cover. Spend time with the characters. Study their motives. Imagine yourself in their shoes. Appreciate the author’s way of constructing a new world through a dozen squiggles on the page. Soak in the sunshine of metaphors. Now, even if you’re not big on fiction, you can do the same with non-fictions. Don’t just pace through the book. Read it and spend some time turning the concept over. Prod it from several different angles. Draw your own examples. I assure you, reading is much more satisfying and helpful in the long run that way.

The irony here is that, as you spend more time soaking up books in the appropriate pace for you to comprehend, you will actually increase your reading skills and be able to read faster. Don’t believe me? Read a few of these blog posts about the flaws of speed reading techniques and do your own research!

https://www.wired.com/2017/01/make-resolution-read-speed-reading-wont-help/

https://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2015/01/19/speed-reading-redo/

http://lifehacker.com/the-truth-about-speed-reading-1542508398

Player One, Listen Up!

Let’s just bear with me here.

First off, customize your character. What do you want to be? A male, or female or none and both at the same time? Sure. You want purple spikey hair? Go for it. Caps or nah? You choose. Tell me honestly what the point of taking others’ thoughts into consideration is. This is your damn character. If they have an opinion, well, let them customize theirs.

Scary-sounding life goals? Those are just missions and small quests. We all know a game is useless if it doesn’t have an end mission; well, the same is with life. Set up those goals, get up, and go get’em! Focus on the quest at hand, and believe that those small seemingly unconnected quests will weave together to get you to the main mission.

Failed the first time, second and third? That’s okay. Nobody wins a worth-while game overnight. Go over to your saving point, and start again. Every gamer knows it takes a lot of hard practice until they can achieve a mission. The same goes with life. Go back home, treat yourself well, sleep, get up, and do it all over again. You’ve got this, champ.

Something you don’t expect is calling you out to a different territory? Dude, that’s a side quest going on there. Go for it! Unknown territory brings out fearsome monsters, but there also lies hidden treasures that you would have never encountered had you travelled your normal route. The same goes with life. Sometimes, unexpected chances appear, grab ‘em! Most of the time, they don’t even appear as chances. Just like how that old witch coming to you has a dangerous quest to ask for help, some of the chances look like problems at first. However, by the end of the quest, you would have gained some extraordinary XPs! Who knows?

An enemy you hate? A bully you despise? A judge you fear? Well, think of them as the “big bosses”. Don’t literally kill them off, though; that kills people, Caaarl. Just think of a way to defeat their grip on you, to stop being in their mercy. After all, they are just humans, not a zombified dragons you normally encounter in real games.

Friends? No, they are comrades. Some may appear often, some may only seldom come for help. That’s okay because they also have their own battles to fight. Help them when they ask for, and ask for help when you need them. Every competitive gamer knows alliance plays an important role in winning, and so does life.

Register as Player I. Grab the remote, and take control.

Isn’t it nice to think of yourself as the main character in a game? But you know what’s better than this? Unlike pre-designed games, real life’s quests can be designed the way you want it! Don’t like the game you are playing now? Change, and be ready for the challenges!

 

 

 

How to Write New-Year Resolutions

So now you are really ready to do it. 2016 is coming round the corner, and you find yourself all hyped-up, being more than ready to tackle it, and (FINALLY) be productive this time.

This is it. This is the year. I can feel it,” you told yourself while thinking back to all the times in the previous (and many more previous) years when you have failed to keep up with your new-year resolutions.

Obviously, new-year resolutions are super hard to keep. That’s why you need to be very thoughtful from the very beginning.

I have followed through with most of my 2015 resolutions which is why I have the audacity to post this in the aims of giving you some tips, to hopefully guide you toward one of the right directions. Since we are different, of course there are many more ways out there to write new-year-resolutions and keeping them. Again, this is the method that has worked for me, and the most hopeful I can get is to get you to try it. Just try it out. Continue reading How to Write New-Year Resolutions